Jus Woke up!! where is the change you promised Mr,Modi??? #modi
Monday, September 15, 2014
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Monday, September 01, 2014
வேலையில்லா பட்டதாரி
Velaiyilla Pattathari
A Feel Good 'for masses' Movie, full of cliche moments...
(finally a feel good movie for my kind)
Thursday, July 24, 2014
Being Men
PLS WATCH THE VIDEO BEFORE READING THE BLOG.
Woman: What are you
staring at?
Man: Sorry
Woman: Don’t you have manners? Why are you staring at my
legs?
Man: Sorry
.
Woman: Gross people. Sick of men. Disgusting guys. Why can’t
men change their mind set.
Man: Shall I ask you a
question?
Woman: what?
Man: Why do you think
it is disgusting if I stare at your bare legs?
Woman: How do you feel if someone stares at you the same way?
Man: I accept it would
be embarrassing to be a show piece, but I would not show case in first place.
Woman: What showcase? I wear what I am comfortable of
wearing?
Man: Ok, if a micro
mini is comfortable physically, the embarrassment of getting the stares which
you know very well you would be getting if you wear those short jattis, will
not you make uncomfortable mentally? Did you not realize you will get these
stares while you wore it? you preferred physical comfort over mental comfort, didn't you?
Woman: I know sick guys like you would stare? But why can’t
men change their selves?
Man: You women changed
the civilization too fast within a decade or 2 and want men to change their
evolutionary instinct within the same time. Change of culture can happen in a
short timeline, but the change of genes, the evolutionary instinct will take a
long time to change. When, in Stone Age when all were roaming nude I hope there
were no stares on women, because they were used to it. But when there is uniformity
in the society, when someone stands out from uniformity, they will obviously
get the stares.
Woman: whatever…
Man: Now may I ask you another
question?
Woman: …
Man: why do you wear a
lipstick?
Woman: to look good.
Man: why do you want to
make up yourself look good with artificial upgradation of your natural face?
Woman: looking good
gives us the confidence?
Man: Us? So now you speak
for all women?
Woman: yes.
Man: ok it gives you,
women, the confidence by looking good, is that right?
Woman: yes
Man: what confidence
does it gives you?
Woman: confidence to face the world?
Man: why do you feel if
you are not looking good you would not have the confidence to face the world?
Woman: It’s you sick men, you give importance to good
looking women.
Man: so you wanted to
look good for men to take notice of you and not by because of you are talented.
Woman: we are more talented than men.
Man: really? Then why
do you needs the beauty to give you the confidence? You think your beauty and
ability to attract men, who form the most of the society, is the ticket to get noticed
first, Right?
Woman: I don’t know about other women, but I am not like
that.
Man: now you don’t want
to represent women suddenly?
Woman: every women is different
Man: yes, every women claim
she is different from the rest.
Woman: yes we are.
Man: now answer me; you
are making up a face to look good to feel confident of being a noticeable
person
Woman: now tell me, why do men wear a hair gel?
Man: to look good to attract women, I accept it.
Woman: see, perverts…
Man: it’s not being a pervert; it is the instinct,
the basic instinct of being a Man. The lion, the peacock every animal in this earth
do courting the opposite sex. It is the real desiderandam of existence in this
world.
Woman: yes, sex is the only thing in men’s mind
Man: I said, reproduction, not sex, is the only
thing which nature has designated living things to do to keep the life cycle on
the earth moving. It’s this force of nature to adapt to this universal requirement to assist evolution our characteristics were been installed inbuilt.
Woman: means men always think about sex, right.
Man: You don’t understand
it’s not just men; it’s the entire living things, including plants have one but
no other requirement to survive in this world. Why humans are distinct is we started
to “think” to comfort ourselves and protect us from other animals. That is
evolution. Whatever inventions which happened are the extensions of the
thinking process humans went through. Had sex been the only thing in men’s mind
all these 95% of inventions done by men wouldn't have happened.
Woman: this is because men did not let women to be freely express
their thoughts. Had women been as free as men, we would have made 50% of the
inventions in fact more.
Man: so now you represent
women again? It is for the good things you want to represent women and for the
not so proud of things, each would be different is it?
Woman: now don’t deviate, I reinstate, had women been as free
as men, we would have made 50% of the inventions in fact more.
Man: now may I ask you
another question, why women had to let free by Men to be free?
Woman: because men are physically stronger, they kept women
in control.
Man: why do you think
men kept women in control?
Woman: to overcome them
Man: what do they get
just by keeping them in control?
Woman: SEX?
Man: you think men
wanted only sex and hence they kept women in control?
Woman: yes
Man: if it was only sex
as you said why the physically more powerful humans, the men, did not keep women
as just sex slaves, but formed families?
Woman: they wanted someone to cook at home
.
Man: men would have
food wherever they wanted
Woman: to take care of the children
Man: they would have preferred
not to have children if as you said their only intention was sex.
Woman: then tell me why
Man: the society, civilization,
family, culture all these were formed as a part of evolutionary changes that
humans went through
Woman: …
Man: men were powerful,
women were week. Yes. And like animals the only instinct humans had was to
reproduce. And as a natural instinct and theory of nature, the best of the species
will survive, and as an instinct, it was into the minds to court for the best of
the opposite sex. When this courting happens to grab the best of opposite sex
to reproduce, there were fights between men (because they were physically powerful than women and women had no choice to fight)
to keep the best for them. This had led to many loss of life and there was a
time in history when the human race would have been extinct and it did extinct
few of the other human species like neandardals, if not for the thought process of forming a family or society.
Woman: humans evolved
from monkeys
Man: no, monkeys and
humans evolved from same ancestors and like different variety of monkeys, there
once used to be different variety of humans too. All extinct due to these
fights between spices, to survive.
Woman: Wow! That is NEWS to me
Man: so humans started
to think or is it nature, which took an instinct decision to stop this fights,
which may lead to the extinction of humans all together, initiated an evolution.
To THINK. Humans started to think. They thought of, the MEN who were more
powerful physically, made peace with other clans, not to fight for women, and
made a collective decision to have families. Everyone will have few women for
his own and will not fight for other women. This is how first family evolved.
Yes it was polygamy. Then the men had to go out and earn for the women under
his wings. He started to work. He wanted to keep them protected from others. So
he built. He doesn’t want them to attract others so he made cloths. He wanted
to come home fast. He invented wheel and in turn transportation. This is how society
evolved. And million years passed by slowly evolving and men getting civilized to
accept the concept of family. But the basic nature instinct to get a female was
always inside. This century when globalization, media decided what we think,
women were liberated. Men lost the power hold to the women due to laws, rules
etc passed in favor of women. These laws were passed to please the women, which
in turn elected them to power in the society. Women slowly but steadily incurred
power at home, which radiated outside too. Then suddenly there was steep upward transition in women's transformation graph on being liberated. The confinement or the clutches
which gave away slowly and was broken and women came out and like a bottle of soda erupted.
Men could not withstand this sudden transformation of women, but only try to control
themselves of their instinct. But sometimes emotion over comes mind. This is
why I stared at you. Did I answer your question, of why I did stare at your
bare legs?
Woman: this is what we
are shouting for, increase your self control. Teach yourself of the manners.
Man: yes, we do. That is
the reason men had not become animals again. But I wish to reinstate the
example I told earlier, like a bottle of soda, when kept compressed at great
pressure, which here is compared to self control, will remain placid. You keep agitating
it by shaking it vigorously, which is compared to the exhibits of women which
men aren’t used to recently, till a threshold and then it had to open up. Once opened
its chaos. That is when these rapes happen.
Woman: so you say rapes happen because women exhibit themselves.
Man: women, sometimes exhibit
intentionally and Unintentionally.Now I wish to ask one more question? May i?
Woman: what?
Man: You said you wear these shorts cos they are comfortable, right? will you wear it when you are 40 yeras old?
Woman: oh! come on, obiviously not.
Man: Why?
Woman:
Man: cos it will not look good on you then?
Woman: May be?
Man: means, today you think you look good in this shorts and want to exhibit yourself, right?
Woman: NO! i wear this cos i am comfortable waeing this and i would not be comfortable then to wear the sorts then at 40.
Man: comfortable mentally or physically?
Woman: Mentally, i will not blotch up like others when i am 40.
Man: hmn... so now you prefer your physical comfort over the mental discomfort but would consider the mental discomfort over physical comfort during 40's. why is it so. ?
Woman: you are twisting my mind.
Man: No, i am reinstating the fact that your inner self is happy exhibiting your youthful beauty while it would not be the case in your 40's. That is the instinct of the women, and likewise that is the instinct of the men to SEE.
Woman: this is very wrong, I am not like the few who do all this exhibiting.
Man: So now u r distinct from others, right. So you accept few do exhibit? ok now I shall ask
you another question.
Woman: what?
Man: do you know what
courting means or peacocking?
Woman: no
Man: it is the instinct
of the living things to attract the opposite sex. This courting instinct is
predominant in women to get best men. You will never feel it in your mind or
even think. But it will happen spontaneously to any women or men to court. That
is why men or women groom themselves to look good. Men accept this, women don’t.
Woman: we don’t groom ourselves to attract men, we just feel
confident on being looked upon.
Man: so you want to be
looked upon, but when I look you feel disgusting??
Woman: well!!!
Man: this courting
instinct makes women to exhibit themselves, and obviously men get attracted to
the courting because men, I accept, have few hormones which takeover their emotions
to self-control.
Woman: men groom too.
Man: yes, men groom
too, to attract women, and in current society, men are in abundant compared to
the liberated women today, and have tough competition. For every liberated girl
who court intentionally or unintentionally is attracted by 100s of men, 100 men get to court for 1 women. So women
are in demand. Hence women have the choice to reject 99 of them to select her
man she is courting for, while 99 men lose. The lost men who have 100% self control
lead life with what they get, who have 80% self control derive pleasure
from just starring, who have 50% self control derive pleasure from brushing women
on the buses and trains, who have 20% self control only do all this groping, voyeurism etc and who has none, no self control at all does all these raping,
and the worst of them with animal instinct still predominant does the child abuse.
Woman: true. What is your justification for a 6 year old being raped?
Man: Through out history there are people with various physiological disorders. The guy who does have zero self controls and animal instinct is sure Psyco. it is not that the dressing of the child arouses that particular psychotic individual. The child here is the victim of the psychotic individual who got agitated because of other external factors, need not be by the victim itself. Means you may not be the victim if you exhibit, but someone else who is more vulnerable. that is what some call butterfly effect / chaos theory.
Woman: so..
Man: what I request is, this is the nature, please don’t agitate the bottle. You have the right to wear what you want, do what you want, but the more you agitate, more are the chances of the bottle break opening. We try hard and harder to control ourselves, to control the natural instinct, but you agitate us more and more, and tests us to the core. Yes men are evolving too, to bear the agitation, or what you call to learn, or to get used to all these exposure, but it will take some time for us to evolve. We have evolved from getting used (or learn to see it as a common thing and not excited) from sarees to salwars to jeans, which by large had been a smooth transition. But if you jump from saree directly to a micro mini, it means agitation. Code of ethics were formed to substantiate this smooth transition. By globalization , feminism or whatever you call it, if u want to stir the smooth transition , chaos happens. Through out history there had always been a gap between the high class and the so called low classes. The high class thinks being mordern is copying the west. Whatever, but those days there was a GAP, that kept them out of reach of the less previalged class. Now the cosmopolitan culture which brings the remotest town individual to city which is extravagant, the agitation is hyper. Kindly, I request, therefore, to help us evolve, don’t just criticize by posting videos like this just to get a million likes on you page.
Woman: Why are you telling me this go and tell you children. Don’t teach me what to wear.
Man: I am not teaching you anything here, I just am requesting you to show the same kind of respect to men, what you expect from them. Women wanted to be treated as a goddess but they treat men like trash, at home, at offices and complain that they are being treated so. You get what you show on others. Show love and respect, you will get the same back.
Woman: Whatever, Men will be me. You will never change.
Man: yes Men never did change, it is women who changed.
Woman: so you want women to sit at home as it was used to?
Man: No. Let me tell you a historical fact here. Whatever rules or ethics preached followed with respect to restriction of women was due to the fact that these outrageous activities happened those days too. These rules were formed by the society those days which was ruled by physically stonger men, not to check their instincts but to impose control on women like women wearing modestly, keeping away from appearing in public all these were a gradual process of rules applied in due course of time to minimize the issues. the severity of implementation of these rules depended on community ranging from wearing bruga, scarfs, duppatta etc.. and confinement in kitchen in few communities to confinement to restricted public places in some comparatively liberated communities. History repeats itself, Now the same outrageous activities happen for whatever reason i briefed above, and the fairly stronger sex in the community, THE WOMEN, are imposing rules on men, which men did 1000's of year ago, "confine yourself, do not see, you are a criminal if you look at us" but this will not be a payback for history, because you don't want everyone to shut their eyes, but want the one you wanted to look at you. You can't be selective in imposing rules, hence it will not sustain and you will never succeed in confining men, and these issues will persist. Also what you ask is to change the natures instinct, which will happen only gradually, and not tomorrow. Untill then i request all women , modesty is not restraintment, it is your freedom to bend the Nature.
Women: Chauvinist..
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Man: The conversation ended up there , this is just the post script, as women has always the last say.
Women: yes, we do.
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Monday, June 30, 2014
MEN @ WORK
Monday, June 09, 2014
Irandam ulagam இரண்டாம் உலகம்
Psychological reason behind the failure of #irandamulagam and success of #Avatar is: When a westerner / foreigner presents you with a new thought you feel,” probably he is more intelligent than me, hence i don’t understand it, let me not reveal my ignorance, let me praise him as the rest of the world does” is the outcome.
When a fellow Tamilian / Indian presents you with a thought which may be more intelligent than a westerners, you think “how could anyone from here be any different from me or think so intelligently or better the foreigners, it can only be a half baked thought, and it is righteous for me to argue that his thought is wrong “
Except for the quality of graphics, I see #irandamulagam is no less than an #Avatar or #Inception, and waiting for #selvaragavan’s best.
Tuesday, May 20, 2014
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